Stop seeking approval outside yourself-it is not there!!
Louise famously said, you have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn't worked. Try approving yourself and see what happens. Today, consciously focus on giving yourself the approval and support that you have been seeking from others, from outside of yourself. What people do, or don’t do, doesn’t determine your worth. Your value doesn’t come from another person; it comes from yourself. People may not encourage you, but you can encourage yourself. People may not make you feel special, but you can make yourself feel special. And, you will have better relationships if you start validating yourself instead of becoming needy and waiting for other people to give you your approval fix. Today, begin to learn how to compliment and validate yourself. If you learn the principle of not relying on other people for your worth and start loving and approving of yourself, you won’t feel crushed when somebody doesn’t give you what you expect. The less you depend on people for validation, the stronger you will become and the further you will go. Today, be kind to yourself, treat yourself as if you were someone that you deeply love and become your own best friend and your biggest fan.
Just for today, I monitor my self talk, making sure it is uplifting and supportive of myself and others. I no longer judge or criticize myself. I am free to love who I am. I now flow freely and lovingly with Life. I love myself and I know only good awaits me. All that I seek is already within me. I am safe and I choose to live in a world of love and acceptance. I love being me. And so it is