Life happens for you not to you so stop resisting

Try as we may, we can’t always control life, and sometimes painful things happen that we couldn’t possibly predict or prevent. And, when life doesn’t go to plan, it is up to us to embrace the change and realize that our lives are composed of chapters; one that has ended and another one, which is about to begin. But we can’t move on to the next chapter if we continually re-read old ones or if we choose to play the victim or choose to dissolve into self pity. Instead, of getting mired down with those defeatist thoughts, we have to willingly accept that life goes on, and that we have a chance to create something bigger and better. Today, consciously become aware that your life will be a lot happier when you strive to make the most of what life gives you by trusting the process and embracing the change, whatever it is. Only then, once you stop fighting it, can you go about making lemonade out of the lemons that Life has given you. We’ve all been faced with situations in our lives that force our hand. And we likely will be faced with these kinds of situations again in the future. In these moments, it’s important to hold onto the notion that life could be creating space for you to do something differently. Today acknowledge that you have made it through loss and hardship before, what makes you think you can’t now? You can. You just need to remember three things: life happens for your benefit not against it, everything heals with enough time, and it’s pointless to keep resisting. With these ideas in mind, it should be exciting to think about the potential you have in your life. The next chapter could be even more amazing than the previous one. Today, be okay with not knowing for sure what might come next, but know that whatever it is, you will be okay.

Just for today, I have faith in the unlimited loving power of the Universe. I trust the power that created me to protect me and guide me at all times and under all circumstances. I trust in the perfection of divine timing and allow my life to unfold as it should. I am willing to change and everything is working out for my highest good. And so it is.

Mercury stations direct

Today, Mercury stations direct after being retrograde since January 30. When Mercury stations, it is at its most powerful causing us to see issues from the past come back up to the surface for clearing, which may come in the form of surprising or shocking awakenings. Although we may not welcome the awakenings they will show us where we must change. Mercury stationed may also make it easier to communicate your thoughts and feelings. And, all the technical difficulties, contract disputes, or miscommunications which Mercury retrograde can bring, should begin to get ironed out. Today, allow yourself to remain awake even if you want to convince yourself that you do not need to make any changes, even though you have been clearly shown quite the opposite. Do not allow your ego, your thinking and your fear to create drama that just isn't there. You and I are meant to be experiencing revolutionary changes in our lives, playing it safe will not work. The past month and for that matter, the past year has been challenging in so many ways. Yet one of the gifts we all have been given has been seeing people and our lives for who and what they really are. The surprises and awakenings that you may be experiencing are all part of your spiritual growth. Today, allow yourself to let go and trust. It can be challenging to let go of identities and intentions you once held so dear. But, when you do, you open yourself up to the infinite opportunities of the Universe so that you can move forward into alignment with who and what you are supposed to be right now. Today, consciously stop suffering, fighting, planning, scheming raging or hiding from the changes that you need to make. Today, surrender, listen to your intuition and trust that everything is always working out for your highest good.

Just for today, I recognize that life is an exciting surprise. I awaken in the morning looking for positive experiences and I find them in the most unexpected places. I know that if I dwell on what I do not want, that is exactly what I will get more of. I now dwell on positive thoughts. I trust the power that created me to protect me, guide me and love me at all times and under all circumstances. Out of this situation only good will come. And so it is.

Boundaries during Pisces season

The definition of a boundary is a limit, which no one can overstep or violate, no matter who the other person is, how much you love him or her, or whether they are your boss, your friend or your family member! Your boundary is something that no one is allowed to breach. And, while we are under the mutable water sign of Pisces, your boundaries may be tested so it is essential to consciously focus on maintaining your boundaries. ⁠If you have a tendency to give too much, you can find yourself feeling unappreciated or depleted, under the Pisces energy.⁠ Perhaps you've been reflecting on how you've given too much in your relationships - whether that is your relationship to your work, friends, or partners.⁠

⁠For many of us, maintaining boundaries is a life lesson. And, it's important not to beat yourself up about past imbalances. Instead, you can acknowledge your experiences as life lessons and know that they are intended to teach you about creating and maintaining healthy boundaries. Today, it is time to become aware about your boundaries, or lack of them and begin to take steps to create better boundaries in your life. Today it is time that you consciously stop making other people's needs and wants more important than your own. Today begin to ask for what you need. Say no when you need to, and when you say yes, mean it. As a result of you setting better boundaries, you will be able to be more compassionate toward others because your healthy boundaries will keep you out of resentment and anger because your needs will finally be met. Remember, the only people that will be upset about you setting healthy boundaries are the ones that benefit from you having none.

Just for today, I respect my boundaries and I insist others do too. I say yes when I mean yes and no when I mean no. I know what I want and I do not need to apologize for it. I am a master at setting healthy boundaries that save my time, energy, creativity and emotional well being. I ask for what I want. I am safe when I speak up for myself. I reclaim my power now and everything is working out for my highest good. And so it is.

Beginnings and endings

Today we enter Pisces season. As the last sign of the zodiac, Pisces Season is a time of culmination and closure. It is a time to wrap up the energies of the last 12 months and prepare for the new. And, there is no doubt that all of our lives have changed since this time last year, and as this astrological cycle comes the end of Pisces Season, we are going to feel the shift and the renewal. Endings always are followed by new beginnings. Today, as we end this astrological year, make some time for reflection and to see how far you have come and where you remain stuck and mired in conflict and struggling. As you begin to recognize how much you have grown and changed, you may also want to finally let go of all the people, places, things, beliefs and habits that truly no longer serve any purpose in your life, any longer, even if they bring you a false sense of security. Remember, new beginnings are often disguised as painful endings.

Just for today, I am open to the magic and mystery that this new beginning brings. I listen to my feelings and I am gentle with myself. I know that all my feelings are my friends, not just the ones I like. I embrace change and willingly let go of everything that does not serve any purpose in my life. I begin and end each day in gratitude and joy. Everything is always working out for my highest good. And so it is.

Get yourself unstuck

We all get stuck: paralyzed about a decision, unsure what choice to make or to not make. Stuck in resentment or disappointment we can’t quite recover from. Stuck in a plan that’s not working as anticipated. Stuck in a destructive, repetitive relationships with family members, coworkers, or friends.

And, when we’re stuck, things feel immovable, entrenched, even hopeless. The good news is in reality you nor I are ever really stuck. We as human beings are actually extremely adept at getting unstuck, at seeing the same thing in new ways, discovering new insights and changing our attitudes. But we need to consciously set our intentions to get "unstuck" and truly be willing to change before our situations will change. First, you and I need to surrender, completely to what is, not just a little. Feeling like you are banging your head against a wall or swimming upstream signals a need for surrender. And, surrendering doesn’t mean endorsing or even tolerating what is happening; it just means accepting reality. After you have completely surrendered, you will be able to see your opportunities a lot clearer. Next, in order to get unstuck you will need to detach from the outcome of your decisions and the fears about things not working out, and instead focus solely on what exactly you want and need. In this way, the uncertainty can lead to opportunity. Finally, as you are able to see new opportunities, it is essential to let go of the need to fix everything fast! And, it is always helpful to remind yourself that you’re doing the best you can, as fast as you can. When you’re finally able to let go of your fears and be proactive about your decisions, you will find that life is yours again, to be shaped and lived in any way you like.

Just for today, I surrender to what is. I let go of what was and I have faith in what will be. I am willing to see how and where I need to change. I am willing to change and grow. When I am ready to make positive changes in my life, I attract whatever it is I need to help me. I choose to make the rest of my life the best of my life. I am safe, it is only change and everything is working out for my highest good. And so it is.

Blame

We have all become so accustomed to blaming other people and circumstances that we are often not even conscious that we’re doing it. On the surface, it’s much easier to blame others, because it removes the burden of accountability from us and places it firmly at the feet of another. However, although blaming others appears to be a quick-fix solution, in reality it fixes nothing. In fact, blaming others takes away your control of the situation and passes it onto the other. It prevents you from seeing the whole truth of the issue and blocks you from fully understanding yourself, which can keep you stuck in the same obstructive patterns of behavior. Furthermore, when you blame another, you give your own power away because you're placing the responsibility for your feelings on someone else. People in your life may behave in ways that trigger uncomfortable responses in you, but they can never get into your head and make you respond in any specific way. Taking responsibility for your own feelings and reactions is mastering your “ability to respond.” In other words, you learn to consciously choose rather than simply react. So, today stop blaming anyone for your current feelings and situations. Whether it is your parents, your husband, your co-workers or your neighbors, it is time to stop blaming others and accept responsibility for every action you take, even the ones you might be ashamed of. The more you are able to do that, the stronger you become and the weaker your ego will be, gradually loosening the grip it has on you and me. Today, stop blaming anyone for your perceived struggles and instead, look for the lesson from what you are experiencing because there always is one even if it isn't something you want to learn about yourself or about your ego .

Just for today, I release the need to blame anyone including myself. We are all doing the best we can with the knowledge, understanding and awareness that we have right now. I no longer judge or criticize anyone, including myself. I now move through life knowingly that I am divinely protected, guided and loved. I look for the lesson in every situation and I learn my lessons easily. I am safe and out of this situation only good will come. And so it is.

Be your own Valentine!

Happy Valentine's Day! As much as Valentine’s day is about expressing love for those special people in your life, I think it is just as important to express love to YOU. Loving yourself has nothing to do with vanity or arrogance—those emotions are only expressions of fear. When you truly love yourself, you are able to cherish and appreciate yourself for the wondrous being that you are. Loving yourself enables you to create a life of joy and fulfillment. Remember that everything in your outer world is a mirror of what goes on in your mind. If you want to find love and acceptance in your outer world, then that’s what YOU must first give to yourself. Today, this is my Valentine's day wish for you: stop criticizing yourself—now and forevermore. Love and accept yourself as you are right now. When you do, you’ll blossom in ways that you can’t even imagine. Love will heal you. Your love for yourself will work miracles in your life. Be your own Valentine today and every day moving forward.

Just for today, I remember that Life is very simple. What I give out comes back to me. Today I choose to give out love. I am comfortable in looking in the mirror and saying "I love you". I recognize that love happens when I release the desperate need for love, and instead, allow it to find me in the perfect time in the perfect way. I draw love and acceptance into my life, and I allow myself to accept it now. I am beautiful and everyone loves me. I am safe and everything is working out for my highest good. And so it is.

Happy Lunar New Year-The year of the Metal Ox

Happy Lunar New Year! The Lunar New Year began yesterday, and in Chinese Astrology, it is the official welcome of the year of the Metal Ox. The Ox is the second sign of the Chinese zodiac, making this a year for consolidating and building a steady foundation. It begins a time of peace, patience and rebuilding. And, the year of the Ox favors taking methodical small steps rather than giant leaps. With slow and steady progress, you can win the race. The Ox zodiac also shines a spotlight on the creation of wealth. It can bring opportunities for us to generate new streams of income, but just the same, it can also increase our spending, allowing us to learn about balance in our spending and in our giving and receiving. While we are being supported to innovate and find new ways to increase our wealth, we also need to ensure we are using the grounded, stable, and methodical energy of the Ox when it comes to achieving our goals. With that focus on finances in 2021, it is also a good time to connect with the abundance that is all around you. Abundance does not have to just be about money; it is an energy current that is there for us to tune in to and to work with. It reminds us that the Universe is an open door, filled with opportunities and infinite potential. Connecting with abundance is our reminder that life is working in harmony with us, rather than against us. It is our reminder that when we seek, we will always find. Today, as we start this new Lunar Year, begin to consciously align yourself with the field of abundance by releasing any beliefs aligned with scarcity, competition, and lack, and begin to connect with the riches that are always around you, regardless of what your bank balance may be. Today be grateful for the incredible abundance that you have been gifted with! Gratitude is a powerful way to connect with abundance. So today, begin again with gratitude and recognize that each and everyone of us is blessed beyond our comprehension. May the year of the Ox bring love and abundance to you and to your loved ones.

Just for today, I am open and receptive to all the abundance and good in the Universe. Abundance flows freely though me. I am worthy of the very best in Life and I now lovingly allow myself to accept it. I now see opportunities for abundance everywhere. I am blessed and prospered. I begin and end each day in gratitude and joy. All is truly well in my world. And so it is

Do not look back!

Many of us keep waiting for our lives to return to normal-to go back to how they were before the pandemic. And, although it is human to want to go back to how it was before our lives were changed completely and to want to cling onto the belief that things will go back to how they once were, when the pandemic is over, it is time that you and I acknowledge that we can never go back to the way we were. Today it is time to acknowledge that you nor I can ever return to the old normal. For you see, through our challenges and our struggles, in truth we have all changed. Changed our values and beliefs about certain people, places and things. In general we have changed, despite fighting that change every day, hoping we can return to what seemed like better times. For you see life-altering experiences have a way of altering your viewpoint on life. And that can result in changes to your core personal values. Your values are your inner compass in life, so it’s important to take the time to determine how they might have changed and what is important to you NOW. Today, acknowledge and begin to accept that when life gets disrupted, you can’t go back. But , what you can do instead is to take back your control and to create a new normal. Today, don’t waste your time looking back on what you’ve lost. Move on, for life is not meant to be traveled backwards.

Just for today, I create a wonderful new day and a wonderful new future. The past is over and has no power over me. I can become free in this moment. I recognize that today's thoughts create my future. I am in charge. I now take back my power to create the life I desire. I am safe and everything is working out for my highest good. And so it is.

New Moon in Aquarius-NOW is the time to change

We have a New Moon in Aquarius, the sign of the water-bearer that pours its healing waters onto the earth and washes away illusions so we can see our life clearly. And, by clearing our vision, we will be set free to move forward, we will see progress in our lives. Intensifying those life changing energies are six additional planets in Aquarius including Venus and Jupiter. Venus is the planet of love and Jupiter brings abundance to all it touches. This New Moon is literally designed to expand your heart. Today, allow the abundance of Aquarius energy to help you break free from patterns that are keeping you stuck. Any relationships or circumstances that are stifling your growth and in may ways are stifling your life need to be transformed. And, NOW is the time. Today, set your intentions to take small steps to liberate yourself from self-imposed restrictions, to break out of relationships that feel oppressive or restrictive and to break out of boring routines so you can experience more freedom and fun. Today, allow the liberating energies of this New Moon to give you the courage to begin to take small step towards revolutionary change.

Just for today, I am confident and courageous. I possess the strength and ability to achieve my goals and dreams. Life mirrors my every thought. As I keep my thoughts positive, life brings me only good experiences. I am willing to let go of all people, places, things and beliefs that no long serve any purpose in my life. I am safe. It is only change and everything is working out for my highest good. And so it is.

The Dark of the Moon

We are in the Dark of the Moon, which is the time when the Sun and Moon meet up in their sign before they are exact for the New Moon. It is a time of stillness, introspection and wonder. And since we have six planets in Aquarius right now, you will definitely be feeling the energies of Aquarius. Aquarian energy is revolutionary, innovative, awakening, and expansive. It brings with it new ideas, new ambitions, and the gift of seeing ourselves in one another. And, it is important for you to pay attention to how the Aquarian archetypes of the Rebel, Revolutionary, Humanitarian and Freedom-seeker are playing out in your life, for they will be revealing themselves to you! You may begin to become more aware of the injustices that are playing out in your world that seem to have become more pronounced and less tolerable under the Aquarian energy. And, you may also become aware of how you impose restrictions and limitations on yourself and your life. After all, Aquarius is freedom loving and its energies will show you where you need more freedom in your life. Today, make time to reflect on the areas of your life where you have self-imposed restrictions and limitations, and how you can liberate yourself from them. If you have been pondering how you can have more freedom in the relationships in your life and how you have been giving away your power to people, remember nobody can make you do or feel anything. You always have free will and you always have the freedom to choose. Today, choose wisely. Choose freedom, choose love.

Just for today, I give myself the gift of freedom from the past and move with joy into the now. I now free myself from destructive fears and doubts. I say no when I mean no and yes when I mean yes. I know what I want and I don't need to apologize for it. I am an unlimited being, receiving from unlimited source in an unlimited way. I now move through past limitations into freedom. I am becoming all that I was created to be. Everything is working out for my highest good. And so it is.

Energy

We experience and create all kinds of different energies that affect how we feel and what we accomplish throughout our day. Some energies are powerful and easily recognizable, while others are more subtle and often only intuitively felt. In fact, it is fair to say that everything is, in a sense, energy. The things you say, the things you think, the things you do—even the things you don’t do—all produce energy that impacts you and the people around you. And, if you work on creating more positive energy, you’ll see improvements in your life more than you thought possible. Today, it is time to consciously create more positive energy in your life. Begin by playing and listening to your favorite music. Music is the easiest way to shift your energy. And there are many other easy ways to shift your energy. Today, make a list of all the things that make you feel good and use it as a guide as you learn to become energized from a wider variety of things. If being in nature is something that energizes you, try spending a little more time outdoors. If writing, dancing or yoga bring your joy, then do more of them. A lot of people think of energy as a spiritual term. However, energy isn’t necessarily an otherworldly concept. It’s something we create in our day-to-day activities.

And, if you learn to fully appreciate this moment, you will see you have profound power to manifest positive feelings within—to create divinely inspired energy, which can impact everything and everyone around you. In this way, you play a much larger part in the bigger picture than you ever realized. Today, remember the secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.

Just for today, I feel glorious, dynamic energy. I am active and alive. I direct my creative talents towards music, art, dance and anything that brings me pleasure. I know that the key to creativity is that my thinking creates my experiences. I use this key in every area of my life. I feel safe in the rhythm and flow of my every changing life. I am safe and I am in the process of making positive changes in every area of my life. And so it is.

Self love

The most important decision of your life, the one that will affect every other decision you make, is the commitment to love and accept yourself. It directly affects the quality of your relationships, your work, your free time, your faith, and your future. And yet, none of us are taught how to do just that. Perhaps it is because our parents were never taught how to love themselves. Therefore they could neither teach us nor show us by example how to really love ourselves. Or perhaps, it is today's society that teaches us that our worth is found in the idols of our culture—technology, status, youth, sex, power, money, attractiveness, and romantic relationships. And, of course there is the illusion of our daily social media that keeps telling us through pictures and words that we are not "enough", when we continually compare ourselves with others. However, when you base your self worth on the external world, you’ll never be capable of self-love. Today, no matter what the reason that self love hasn't become your default emotion/feeling, it is time for you to consciously begin to make it so. Begin by seeing the world with fresh eyes. Feeling worthy requires you to see yourself with fresh eyes of self-awareness and love. Acceptance and love must come from within. You don’t have to be different or change who you are to be worthy. Your worth is in your true nature, a core of love and inner goodness. In fact, you are love. You can attempt to bury your magnificence, but it’s impossible to destroy. Today, recognize that loving yourself isn’t a one time event. It’s an endless, ongoing process. And, that process begins with you right now; begins with you surrounding yourself in your own affection and appreciation. Today, recognize that you must learn to love yourself and your own company. Because we are all interconnected, and when you learn to love yourself you will truly be able to love others. Together through our love, we can heal ourselves, each other, and the world. Love is our purpose, our true calling. It begins with you and it begins today.

Just for today, I love and approve of myself unconditionally. I choose to be happy no matter what they say, do or think. I recognize that love is the great miracle cure and that loving myself will create miracles in my life. I have the power, the self esteem and the confidence to move forward with grace and ease. As I change my thoughts the world around me changes. I am safe and everything is working out for my highest good. And so it is.